Love, relationships and sex matter

They matter to us more than we care to admit and are a big influence on our ability to be happy. And yet none of us have had much education or information about how to do this well. The most important things are hard to talk about. And none of us have been to Sex School.

You're here because you're ready to make some changes and learn more about intimacy. You're here because your feelings and desires matter. So I invite you to be brave and admit your longing and curiosity for better experiences in the future. You've come to the right place and I'm here to support you on your journey.

“Understanding ourselves through sexuality is deep work. The effects of this have gradually rippled through my life, giving me more ease and confidence in expressing myself, recognising my renaissance soul giving me an empowering sense of loving aliveness. It’s been a journey to understanding my unique erotic and personal freedom and how to live in my true nature and share that in my relationship. I’ve worked with leading teachers in the field of sexuality, tantra and conscious kink, exploring how to create varied, loving, truthful and embodied sexy relationships. Let me accompany you on yours”

About Me

Alison Pilling

Love and Relationship have been an abiding mystery to me and the search for understanding has taken me along many paths. A soul journey through sexuality.
For a previously repressed catholic, identifying and overturning old beliefs that had restrained me, opened up a new sense of what was possible. Connecting with my eroticism and sensuality allowed new ways of understanding what is possible, leading to a huge sense of personal freedom and empowerment.

I invite you to read some of my articles to get a sense of what matters to me.

See where that resonates with what you’d like to learn.  Are you ready to take an exciting, exhilarating step in your life?

Dating Tips is a great way to explore beautifully and safely what dating means to you and what you might need in a partner…and to connect with others exploring the same. Great if you want to think more deeply about dating without actually going on a date. And it’s brilliant if you want to understand yourself and be more in control of your choices and needs, particularly if you’ve dating dreads or fears.


Opening up to a total stranger is never easy particularly when discussing intimate personal issues, so finding a person with the right level of understanding, knowledge and discretion is difficult. I feel fortunate that not only does Alison possess all these in abundance but she has a warmth of personality that makes you want to explore your own psyche and understand more about what pleasure means for you. I couldn’t recommend her highly enough.


After emerging from a twenty year marriage that had featured no intimacy for around fifteen years I was in a bit of a pickle. I didn’t feel I was quite equipped with the knowledge necessary to start this next period of my life. Working with Ali has pretty much changed my whole concept of intimacy. I have learned to ask for what I want sexually, this slowly unlocked the process of me thinking more about what I might want in my life.


I invite you to book a Discovery session

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